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The issue with, “It is OK! He is pleasant!”

Hey, associates! And welcome to a different version of: Maggie climbs up on a soapbox and rants about canine stuff! It’s been some time since I’ve been up right here, and I positive do like this view…

Not too long ago, we’ve had a bunch of run-ins with canines round city that I wished to debate. You is likely to be acquainted with these situations. And when you really feel referred to as out as you learn this put up, I hope you’re prepared and open to rethink your conduct.

A white fluffy dog runs through a field of grass. The text overlay says: The problem with, "It's OK! He's friendly! (It's not OK.)

In our neighborhood, there’s an equal mixture of fenced-in yards with bodily fences and with digital fences. There are two homes with a front-yard tie-out and some homes with not one of the above.

These homes are mapped in our brains, and we’ve created routes and routines for strolling Cooper that both keep away from or circumvent locations the place there are issues.

First court docket on the left? Skip. A tiny white canine isn’t contained and bops across the road.

Not too long ago-remodeled gray home simply previous the white home with the slate entrance porch? Proceed with warning. There’s a free canine who sleeps within the yard all day and isn’t actually a risk as a result of she’s so very previous, however she does go away the yard every so often.

Man with the 2 poodles? Keep away from in any respect prices. One canine roams free and the opposite is on a flexi. Look ahead to and alter instructions!

And so forth.

These of you with reactive canines most likely have comparable maps saved in your heads… the homes to keep away from, the streets which can be normally protected, the yards with canines tied up out entrance.

However right here’s the factor: It’s an imperfect system.


Nicely, as a result of who knew the individuals throughout the road had a Basset hound?! The canine actually by no means as soon as has been walked since we’ve lived right here however wandered out the fence as soon as when their yard crew left the gate open.

Or, one other time, a canine hadn’t but been hooked to his tie-out and charged Cooper and John, chasing them down the road.

Or, the time that previous canine did wander after us down the street and got here proper as much as the stroller, which fortunately allowed us to take away Cooper to the opposite aspect of the road.

Every time one thing like that occurs, the one that realizes their canine is free or the one that leaves their canine off leash on goal or the one that doesn’t but notice their electrical fence shorted out begins yelling:

“It’s OK! She’s pleasant!”

Identical goes for individuals who take their canines off their leads on on-leash trails or in parks or open soccer fields. Because the canine barrels down on us:

“Don’t fear! He’s pleasant!”


It’s NOT OK. And I DO fear.

Even when you don’t have a reactive canine like Cooper, chances are high you don’t respect an unknown pup dashing as much as you and shoving his nostril in your canine’s nostril or butt. Who desires to be ambushed by somebody they don’t know? I actually don’t, and I wouldn’t count on my canines to need (and even tolerate) that both.

For these of us who do love a reactive canine, effectively, we’re usually excellent rule followers. It retains our canines protected. We go to on-leash parks. We hike on-leash trails. We keep away from recognized hassle spots… however I assume my level is that there shouldn’t BE hassle spots.

Everybody ought to comply with the foundations.

Include your canine in your yard, and when you’re going to make use of an electrical fence, be sure that it’s operational. In the event you’re in an on-leash space, hold your canine on leash. Or, take into account going to a canine park the place your canine can run free and leash-less to your coronary heart’s content material. We positive as hell received’t be there to spoil your canine’s day, so don’t let him run off leash round us and spoil our day!

My canine shouldn’t be “unfriendly.”

He’s, nonetheless, anxious. He feels nervous round new individuals and canines. He ultimately warms as much as each individuals and canines, however not once they rush as much as him unexpectedly and plow into his face or backside whereas somebody screams, “He’s pleasant!”

Cooper doesn’t like that. I don’t like that. I don’t like that on his behalf, on behalf of all the opposite delicate canines like Cooper, and I don’t like that on my behalf as a result of I’m pressured into the place of yelling again, “My canine’s not! Get your canine!”

After which I really feel indignant–on prime of the adrenaline of a free canine dashing us–as a result of I need to defend Cooper. “It’s not that your canine isn’t pleasant. My canine wants area. He must really feel safe, and he must be protected. We’ve labored actually laborious to create that area, safety, and security for him over time, and your free canine wrecks it for us.” Or one thing.

In case you are somebody who lets your canine run free in on-leash areas…

In case you are somebody who lets your canine roam your yard–he nearly by no means wanders off!–with out some sort of containment…

In case you are somebody who depends solely on an electrical fence, and also you don’t typically examine to see if it’s operational…

Rethink. Please.

Leash your canine. Examine your fence. Let your canine run at an off-leash park. Merely comply with the foundations. Shouting, “He’s pleasant,” isn’t, ever adequate.

And when you’re somebody who follows the foundations, regardless that your canine isn’t reactive, THANK YOU! We’re grateful for you!

Lastly, when you’re somebody with a reactive canine, what would you add to this? What else do you would like individuals would do (or not do) to maintain you and your canine protected?

Stepping down off my soapbox for now. Packing it up within the closet for subsequent time. (:

Learn extra: What I want you knew about my reactive canine

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